husband literally runs away from me by leaving the house, or going into another room and locking door when i try to talk to him about anything dealing with our relationship that he doesnt want to hear about.. when i try to talk to him, i am calm, i dont raise my voice, etc.. but he doesnt want to hear it, so he just cuts me off.. the conversations are usually about better communication, how to make our relationship better, etc. i am getting tired of this and i feel that he doesnt respect me and doesnt care about anything i have to say.. i feel that he wants me to never talk about anything deep or important.. like its a superficial relationship.. we have tried counseling, but nothing has changed.. its like we did the six counseling sessions and now i can never bring anything up again.. what should i do?Is there something emotionally wrong with a man who cant communicate?
You have really only one option here: the two of you need to get in to see a couples counselor. He's grossly immature and acting like a total child, and he doesn't want ';mommy'; telling him how to behave.
Tell him in NO uncertain terms that he either goes with you to a counselor or he goes and finds himself a divorce attorney. And then you carry through.
There is NO middle ground when it comes to communication.Is there something emotionally wrong with a man who cant communicate?
God I find you annoying. Men dont want to constantly be working on their relationship. If you are married then something must have worked for you. You cant keep trying to change stuff!
I never say this but you two may need counseling. Relationships are built on communication %26amp; if you end up having a bigger issue that you have to talk about you could run into big trouble.
you must of know this in the beginning so what has change..or are you trying to change him now that you are married. can not teach an old dog new tricks. do not mean to be so harsh but...see it so often people trying to change someone to suit there needs
There's 2 sides to every story and without knowing all the details, no one can say that he doesn't love you or doesn't respect you. A lot of times women will beat a conversation to death and the man will get tired of hearing the same thing over and over and giving the same response over and over.
Men are not like women. I can talk about my relationship and that of others all day. That's why I got to level 5 in two months. I'm a blabbermouth. Most women are. Men are totally different. My fiance always says that he would never lie to me ever so if he has already given me an answer to something, I need to accept the answer and not ask him again about it. It's in their makeup.
Excuse me so how long are you going to live like that? You are beating a dead horse. You can not force him to care the way you want him to, you can not make him listen to you, you can not change this man, you can not make him love you!!! You CAN NOT DO IT!!! Give it up!! Walk away!! You act like you are going to make him do what ever you want!! YOU CAN'T!!!! Time to end what you think is a relationship. Actually you have no marriage and you don't have a relationship. Accept it...move on.
The truth no......most of the times women dont communicate with there man either...if you notice you women communicate with you lady freinds more...same thing goes for us men,we tend to tell our men or lady freinds alot more than we do you......most of the time when it comes to husband and wife communicating it ends up in a fight for the simple fact that we are going to defend our selves...what you should do is have a night when you guys can be by yourselves and draw a plan up on how to communicate.....
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