Why does my ex refuse to communicate like a grown man?

He cannot have a conversation that has do do with ';US';





He can shoot the breeze with me or talk seriously about himself and his friends but when it comes to us, nothing!





I don't know how he really feels about me or about us. Sometimes he acts as though he wants us to be together and other times he doesn't and I do not know what goes through his mind! How can you tell someone one day that you love them and hope they would move in with you soon then the VERY next day act as if you just want to be single and alone and say things to that affect?





He is 38! He was married once 12 years ago for like 6 months but she cheated. He then ended up cheating on me with her. We ';almost'; had a child but I lost the baby last December.. another thing he refuses to talk about. I am just left to wonder and assume. Does he still love the ex? Does he really love me? wtf? Will I ever know?Why does my ex refuse to communicate like a grown man?
There is 1 of 2 things going here with him. 1 he is keeping you with in reach so he knows you will be there when he wants you (aka using you). 2 he is afraid of a failing relationship (he needs you but may not want you or want you but may not need you). Men are not very complicated creatures but they are full of emotions that can sometimes show at either the wrong time or to the wrong person. He may really like being single but wants that feeling of a relationship as well. So you need to put your foot down and tell him it's either one of the other not both. You are either together and are going to make a go of it or it's over and you both need to move on, or be able to move on. Good Luck!Why does my ex refuse to communicate like a grown man?
it sounds like he is using you. there is no way that ur so in love with some one and a day later acts like he does not even know you. If he cheated on you why would you want him back sure he made that mistake but you should not have to. I am sorry about the baby I know what that is like. Just move on u deserve some one that will be loyal to u and accpet u with he has a ex or not.
';Why does my ex refuse to communicate like a grown man? He cannot have a conversation that has do do with ';US';





If he is your ex, there is no ';us'; and that is what he IS communicating to you by not having that discussion.
If it's like that then you shouldn't be lingering it'll just hurt you worse in the end my advice is simple. He is a lost cause stuck on her.
He had sex with his ex when dating you! DUH yes he still has feelings and desires for his ex and maybe even loves her too! ! !





You deserve better! Find Mr. Better
Do you not recognize the two key words here? Man and Communicate. That is an oxymoron that does not belong in the same sentence.
You have no reason to still be communicating at ALL. Tell him to scram, and start moving forward. This chapter of your life is over.
Why would he communicate with you if he's your ex?
If he is your ex, why do you care so much? Move on...
You don't seem very intuitive. If he wanted you it would be obvious.
Move on quick!
After a break up there is no real point to talk. I mean what else is there to discuss?
You'll never know. However if I were you I'd cut my losses with this guy, as he sounds like a loser.