Ladies, is it good to ';chastise'; a Woman who refuses to accept responsibility for her actions?

In other words. Here you are. A very beautiful and intelligent Woman. But in spite of the problems


you have had in relationships with Men, you repeat the cycle. A) You always blame others for


judging you, although you never admit when you have done things wrong. B) You refer to others


as being ';mean';. When you have a bad attitude to begin with. C) You say you want Men to


communicate with you more, yet you push them away when they have a logical explanation


or reasonable solution to the answers you are searching for anyway. D) You want people to


treat you with respect, but you have a distorted and flawed perception of how you have been really treating yourself. Now class. Is it wrong for a Man,or vice versa, to honorably chastise a Woman if


she refuses to accept responsibility for her actions ? Or insists that everybody else is always


wrong except her..............Ladies, is it good to ';chastise'; a Woman who refuses to accept responsibility for her actions?
Ok... I'm going to play your silly game, because I'm sick of you thinking that this all due to my past TWO relationships...





It wasn't about football, either. It's about disrespect, and wondering WTF purpose you had for posting a rant about hating Notre Dame football, knowing I would read it, and knowing that I liked Notre Dame football.





Every Monday you'd send me an email about how Notre Dame did...not that I didn't see for myself, never once giving an indication of your ';hatred'; for them, which BTW I don't care how you feel about Notre Dame...there are many, many, many people out there that don't like them... It's your ';two-faced'; personality that came through when I read your rant.





It's about you thinking I'm your girlfriend, and it's inconceivable for you to comprehend that I DON'T KNOW YOU. I know some things about you, but I would never ';date'; a person I've only met on the internet...not because of my past relationships, and not because I have some distorted opinion of myself and not because someone needs to effing ';chastise'; me.





Now...do you think you can change the subject?Ladies, is it good to ';chastise'; a Woman who refuses to accept responsibility for her actions?
Sure. Sounds like she needs to hear it. Chances are it will fall on deaf ears - she's so sure that she's right and everything is everyone else's fault. But you never know; sometimes all it takes is the right few words from the right person to jerk someone back into reality. May as well give it a try.
Well, the problem with that is that you can't chastise anyone who isn't willing to learn from their own mistakes, and who prefer to always shift the blame to someone else. It's a mission that's doomed to fail on its own. A wise man once said ';Fools never repent';.
Nice, that was a very insightful take on the behavior of the modern feminist woman.





They should be forced to grow up and accept the responsibilities that come with their massive rights and privileges.
its fine..just don't do it infront of everyone..cause that does make you look very bad indeed.


but if you do it to her..quite gently..(ok don't have to be gentle but just don't start becoming tooo into it)..then its quite appropriate..
Anyone that 'always blames others' for their problems has serious psychological issues, and is at very least exceptionally irresponsible.





Accept responsibility for your own life, we're all responsible for our own happiness.
Not unless you're her father or her therapist, or unless she's asked you about your opinion about her problems. Otherwise, it's not your place to offer unsolicited advice to another adult. If she wants your advice, she'll ask for it.