Men, How can women communicate better with men....?

.what it is we/women are wanting and needing when it comes to sex?





There seems to be huge disparity here...


';A whopping 85 percent of men rate themselves as good or excellent in the sack...


Almost half of the women polled said ';very few'; of the men they've been with are good in bed, according to research conducted jointly by Shape magazine and Men's Fitness.';


http://www.nypost.com/seven/11172008/new鈥?/a>


Men, How can women communicate better with men....?
yelling like they doMen, How can women communicate better with men....?
Ideally, women should be open enough with their partner to tell them what they do and don't like. Many women, however, just keep silent about it and cross their fingers that their partner will read their minds and magically become a sex god.





If a woman is not enjoying herself, then it's her fault for not speaking up and telling her man what she likes. If she tells him and he doesn't do it, then it's his fault for not listening to her. If she tells him and he gets insecure or pissy about it, well, chances are she won't be telling him what turns her on again, so it's both their faults for not thinking of one another.





Openness and honesty in the bedroom usually make for good sexy time :P
I vouch for what Snufkins just said. Men are always wanting to please their partner but a good percentage of them are bad communicators. I never had a problem with my girlfriend but I always did it her way - unfortunately she wasn't imaginative enough for me - maybe we should have talked about sex more and about what other ways we could have done, etc, etc. I should have been more assertive about what I wanted to do (communication-wise).





Just looked up assertive - it's a very important communication skill, it's not about being aggressive, its about being assertive and that's a good trait. :)


http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Assertivene鈥?/a>
I dint know if i can easily say when it comes to sex but i can certainly say a few things when it comes to making to love because there is huge difference.





Sexual expression is a medium of making your partner happy and feel loved and cared for.





Therefore as a man i would ensure her pleasure is taken care of before i think of mine.





It is easy to just to seek a sexual release oblivious of the other persons needs or emotions but when you really care the other person you think about your own happiness in terms of the other persons happiness.





I WISH YOU WOULD TELL US MEN TO DO WHAT IS RIGHT FOR A CHANGE STRAIGHT UP!!!
It always differs from study to study so it all depends on who you ask for a start. Also if a man is bad in bed its mostly the womans fault for not saying what she wants. I have always said what turns me on, wwhat I like and how to make me orgasm.I l also dont just lay there and expect my man to be psychic. If you dont join in and work together you will both be rubbish. Great lovers are made not born
Please read Growing Gulf between Men and Women on profile or to all on request by e-mail mayfieldga@bellsouth.net. It shows why sex is becoming the number one relationship between men and women and why there is a growing lag or gulf for men mentally, emotionally, socially , academically, and growing lag for Males economically.
I think it might be both who are to blame.





Men need to use eastern control techniques and women need to be less judgmental about each others sexual behavior.





Stop calling each other sluts!





There are many women out there who cannot have a full, gushing, convulsing internal orgasm as opposed to just a clitoral one and that is like most things, is all in the head.
Easy answer. Just like women have their gut instincts so do men.


Some women got to stop saying that there is nothing wrong, when a man asks her. He can clearly see that something is bothering her but she wont speak up. why?


This is how some relationships go down the tube. Couples who don't communicate well will find it sometimes difficult to be together.


Sorry ladies, as much as you would love for us to be psychic, we are not
Woman could, if that is what you want to know, incite men more to have se, and better one at that by complimenting them, like saying you believe he would be like a bull or whatever metaphor you like, or be direct and ask to see their tools.





Hope I helped^^
These women don't tell men what they want. These women are afraid to broach the subject when the guy is not good in the sack. Doing it may be tricky, but it must be better than remaining silent.
Get straight to the point, don't generalize and don't get off track. Even when men are out horsing around they don't waste time getting to the heart of the matter or hold back.
Great article! Will be interesting to see the answers you get. The line where it says women most often fake orgasms when they want to go to sleep said it all lol :-)