Tuesday, August 10, 2010

Why are Taurus men so hard to communicate with?

Why are Taurus men so hard to communicate with?


I've been dating a Taurus man for over a year now and although he has not expressed that he wanted to date exclusively, he got upset with me because he found out that I talk to other guys. He hasn't made any effort to hook up lately, but does call quite frequently. He has expressed that he is in love with me, yet he's upset with me because he says that he can't trust me. I am a very faithful woman in a relationship. I've been single now for over two years and I never knew that talking to other guys was wrong. He never said he wanted to be exclusive, so yeah I'm confused. Everytime I've ever tried to bring up committment he would use some type of manipulation to push me away. I don't sleep around. I only wait for him sexually. I'm so confused because I try to get out of him what he wants, but it never happens until he finds out that I don't sit and twiddle my thumbs until he calls. I love this man and I want him to be my husband someday, I want to take care of him as his wife and we talk about those things. Now this. I ask him to just tell me that we could never have anything more and I would move on, but he would'nt say it. I know he doesn't want to let me go. I just don't know what to say to reassure him that my heart is with him. I really do love him, I just didn't know that we were supposed to be exclusive, because he would never say it. Is it over should I just give up on him. I can't stand the fact that he thinks I'm supposed to read his mind. I asked him why he didn't tell me how he felt about dating from the start. His response was '; I'm not trying to control you';. I just don't get it. He seems to be a little manipulative. What should I do. I am a one man woman in committment. He just hasn't given me the shot at committment and he's already acting like we're committedWhy are Taurus men so hard to communicate with?
I know of a Taurus who treated his woman in the exact same way. He was cheating on her and projecting his lack of morals on to her. Whether or not that is typical of a Taurus or not, I don't know. It might just be that he was a cheater, regardless of his sign. He was very insecure, accused her of cheating, wanted her to be helpless and needy, and yet when she was, he ridiculed her and devalued her.





I think you are giving more than you ought to give. You've been with him for a long time and he isn't holding up his end of the bargain. My guess is if you did some digging around, you'd find that he's got more irons in the fire than just you. Why are Taurus men so hard to communicate with?
hes headstrong, and likes to do things his way.
Talk about it. My ex was a Taurus. I loved him but we went too slow, he wanted to know what I was up to twenty-four /seven and I didn't. I kept losing all my cool points. He even ignored me most of the time. -.-' Oh and did I mention that he thought I didn't love him? That's ridiculous. Well, now I don't and he just makes me totally pissed. Wonder if he's happy about this. And to think I was going to spend the rest of my life with him. :'(

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