Tuesday, August 10, 2010

How to communicate with a man who doesnt talk alot?

or talk at all, i address things with him, he just sits there then says, why do i always have to hear this, then ill say, because you never answer me, maybe if you answer me, ill know whats going on then ill stop asking! how do i figure out what hes feeling if he wont tell me. i can tell somethings wrong cos of his mood but he wont tell me anything now my home life is awkward! I think its work related but i really cant be sure!How to communicate with a man who doesnt talk alot?
According to ';Men are from Mars, women are from Venus'; men, unlike women, do not like to talk about their problems. Women fix problems by talking and men fix problems by analyzing the situation and figuring it out piece by piece. Eventually if they succeed in fixing the problem they will feel proud and will come back to their old loving selves.





Its really hard for women because we feel like they should be able to talk to us, but they see it as a kind of a pride thing, they will rarely back down and ask for help.





So, I know its hard, but honest you have to let him get on with it.





( Sorry if this sounds like im generalizing here, I'm sure not every single male on the planet thinks like this, but im just applying it to this situation)





good luck!How to communicate with a man who doesnt talk alot?
Sounds like your boyfriend/husband (I assume) is starting to tire of your womanly demands. Probably tired of all that work he's having to do to buy you all those new clothes. I would suggest that you may, perhaps, get back to the kitchen but I believe at this point he is beyond the redemption a sandwich would bring. In conclusion I believe the only course of action left is to. Just. Stop. Talking. Trust me the 9 to 5 will go by A LOT quicker when he knows he'll be coming back to a quiet home.
Sometimes people have their own problems and only they can solve it themselves. Yes I agree with most people here. Leave him alone for a while. Let him tell you himself in time. In the mean time he's just having a bad time... try to ask his friends and stuff. Maybe they know.
try to contact with body language.





try to help him in works he likes; if he is a techie, buy him a really special book.





Also, maybe you are asking in front of others.





Also maybe there is levity.





other reason are there too.
If you keep asking him, he's just gonna be annoyed, so yea, just leave him to himself for a while.
dont talk to him about your problems talk to him bout something that interest them
Just don't offer him any sex for a week and lets see what he will say. **** I'll squeal to that.
uhm thats odd just try to keep some problems personal let him work it out on his own
Take a break for a week or two
slappppppppppppppppp him _____a hard slap on his/her cheeks n then shout _____talk to me





thx :p
he's psycho
dunt no?
men that are happy talk more than unhappy ones leave him be and ignore him in all situations he will vocalize his likes and diislikes


once he sees or is the receiver of things he doesnt like or has some hates about happening like complaining why he has to hear all this


fecal matter. Dont include him and just decide you likes if it meets your likes then the situation like whats for dinner if its what you like and not what he likes he will eventually say or just not eat or eat what you prepare right. if its buying what you need to get the work done dont ask just buy what you neeed and get what will make your life happier you cant mke him happy you can take his comments if he comments other wise if he keeps his mouth shut thats a womans bliss not frustrating most women dont want his opinion just care about his feelings and dont want him being outraged this guy sounds like you need to shake him out his conplacentcy do somethings that you now will outrage him and spark interaction and tell him you cant read his mind if he didnt want the fromt lawn torn out and the pool put in he should of said something before you contracted it then just go out and get the pool built without his say once the pool is in you get your pool and he didnt say nothing his loss but if he has a brain hemmorage and wants to talk his rage maybe youll listen and have the lawn relaid at least you get a new lawn laid. right. there are ways about the stupodity of men and women being fickled too. if it or the issue aroused his rage or anger you know his opinion right off so


just rent and have a big old escavator rented for ahour and pay some kid to show up argueing he is there to rip out the septic and see if it wrilles the old bear. if you raise a few of his hairs and he belches out his dislikes about not being asked his opinion you let him know you told him and he said zilch then let him blow off being stupid about not talking out ton the issues imposrtant to you. next time your gonna listen to me right.


get the bear wrilled. then your gonna break the silent bit. when he gets excited or take out a hammer and tear out a wall make it a easy wall to fix dont want him hurting you or someone in the house you just want his response when you talk to him instead of why does he have to hear chit. men get real responsive when you start tearing chit out of the house they are real attached to their cave and dont like you changing things and are usually vocal if he cont talk try this one toss


his easy chair out on the garage or the porch for donation pickup thats gonna raise his hairs. if not his speech centers will get some exercise.


our easy chair we picked out is sacred space if you toss it your in for a ear full of talk or at least opinion you hate the thing right dont hesitate he cant hit you or knock you around times have changed and if he dicorces you you get half his chit anyway and half of what you both have aint bad to get him to talk your a part of a couple not you and a mute in the corner easy chair d idnt marry a mute dont expect one in the house evet and dont tollerate the mute act or you just dont listen when he is trying to relate somthing two way street hun two way


street. and there are not any mutes on this streeet. okay you came into this marriage with it as a union of two who get along and coomunicate their likes and dislikes and wants if he wont get the


hints wrile the chit out of him and shake his tree the bear will eise to want to talk just chill the reality bear out with if you want a dicorce youd be happoy to take half his chit and spouse support for life youd be better off anyway for bears dont live in caves unless you make it one and allow this crud. your the hen of the house not the mrs bear


time to redecorate the hen house so boot the old easy chair and


donate his clothes and make the near roar he will talk it a hell allot easier than delaing with loosing his favorite chair and stuff he likes like that old licence plate collection in the garage toss that chitout in the a box for garbage pickup and his easy chair dont really get rid of it or say you sold it then make the neighbor kids brong it back and pass then some pay for the trick. youll get more talk with his loved items than youcheers and goodluck.


try tossing is will with something he dont care about like the toilet cleaning brush holders and the curtains guys are more protective of their stuff than anything you vorught home from the local sales or the flea markets runs.


this will stimulate communication and he will be talking really true how he likes what when and why. maybe toss those trophy he has had collecting dust for all those games he played in high school or college.

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